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    1. I had a baby a few months ago (2 1/2). The experience wasn’t bad per say, but I did almost bleed out to death and had a lot of stitches you know where which led to a really rocky postpartum journey. I’m still in pain most days and feel like I’ve been hit by a truck and then thrown off of a cliff. Not to mention the exhaustion and continued hormone changes that still seem to be rocking my body. Recently I went to a therapist after being concerned about some things going on in my own mental state and she diagnosed me with extreme Postpartum Depression and Anxiety and told me to speak to my OBGYN
    2. We've have an active troll in the sub over the last 24 hours please just report the idiot and ignore them. If you don't feed them they get bored and go back to sexually obsessing over Caillou versus posting. submitted by /u/Catcherofsouls [link] [comments]View the full article
    3. What happened to make you realize it was time to call it? submitted by /u/ch4evermo [link] [comments]View the full article
    4. Hi, I am writing here because quite frankly I don't really have anyone else to speak to about this besides Reddit because no one really understands. I feel like this would be the perfect group to maybe get some opinions. I have been with my man for almost 4 years now and he is STILL NOT legally divorced from his ex -wife which ended 8 years ago. We have a house together, a child together and he alternates with his ex the daughter they share together. So I'm writing this msg to ask and see if it is OK that I am still very annoyed with the fact he is not divorced yet and legally separated f
    5. As I’m replaying the words through my head “You’ll probably feel a sense of mourning once your stbx starts dating. This isn’t any indication that you need to second guess the decision you made to divorce. It’s a normal reaction to moving on for both of you, so in essence, you’re both feeling the same emotions.” So many hopes and dreams that we both had. They always had us together in each scenario...until they didn’t. So much beauty and ugliness in our decades long marriage. Thank you for the wonderful times husband. I’m sorry for my part in the demise of our marriage. I pray happiness find
    6. STBX left me for AP less then three weeks ago. After 11 years of marriage and 14 years together. He is out there living his best life, spending every night with AP. I sit in this house and think about how unfair it is. My heart is hurting so much and he is off having a blast. Any advice to get me out of this funk? submitted by /u/nymow [link] [comments]View the full article
    7. Hello all! Whether you're lurking out of curiosity or lurking to find the guts to do it... Don't feel trapped! I was a military spouse who didn't have a single friend in the city we had moved to. My VSTBXH had every single thing in his own name. I didn't even have a vehicle to call my own! However, when I look back right now, I wish I had done it sooner. He had consumed my emotions to satisfy is own insecurities. Now, I have my own car, couch and laptop over just a few months. Your happiness is something to chase after. You need to protect number one before you try and protect anything els
    8. I’m a middle school teacher and today in class I asked the students what they would NOT change about their lives. One girl said, “my parents’ divorce: I love my stepmom and my stepdad and my two little sisters.” I hope my little girl can say the same thing someday. It just brightened my day, and I hope it brightens yours too. submitted by /u/SavvyPanther [link] [comments]View the full article
    9. Nobody likes moving, especially after a divorce. Here are 10 tips you need to help make your moving process much easier. The post Ten Ways to Make Moving Easy After Divorce appeared first on Divorce Magazine. View the full article
    10. Hindsight is a hell of a thing. The longer we've been separated, the more clearly I see how much crap I put her through - less emotion involved, I guess. Turns out I really AM just a selfish prick. I'm glad she's happy now. She's like a flower that's come back into bloom. submitted by /u/egeidnsvwye8be [link] [comments]View the full article
    11. Been separated for three months, final divorce next month. 2 kids 7 and 2. Over the last few months I've really tried my hardest to maintain a friendship with my lying/cheating ex wife. What I found was the more I opened up and shared details about my life the more I prolonged actual healing. It feels like a very one-sided friendship where I'm exposed and she remains hidden. Had to let her know we need to focus on a co-parenting relationship now and less about trying to remain friends. It's been hard as she keeps reaching out to try to bait me into opening up and restarting that cycle but I'l
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